Troubled Over Teasing
I know how hard it is to live with food allergies. I have had them my entire life. For a long time, I was picked on for having them.
I tried to separate myself from the kids who teased me. But sometimes the kids would still come over just to pick on me. If I was ever in the situation where someone was offering people food and they got to me and said, “Oh yeah, you can’t eat it, ha ha,” I would calmly respond that I could eat it, because most of the time I could, or I would tell them that I wouldn’t have taken it anyway. I was always “not hungry” or had “just eaten something,” even if I was starving. I was trying to make them think that the reason I wasn’t eating it was that I didn’t want it, not that I couldn’t have it.
When they wouldn’t change, I just ignored them. But that caused me to build up a rage that was insuppressible. I tried to take my anger out with sword fighting, but that was only a temporary solution. I was only feeling good when I was fighting; I was still getting mad at school.
I started to express to them that I didn’t like to be treated like that, and sometimes that worked. If not, I would try to say, as calmly as I could, that I was in a very bad mood. That often got them to go away, but it made me look bad to everybody except my friends, who knew what was really going on.
I have been writing in the past tense, but this is very much still happening. Right now, I am about to start therapy. I am hoping that this will make me get my anger under control, and that I will not have to threaten anyone anymore. If you have anger too, please take my advice and get your anger under control as soon as you can.
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